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“I think what's interesting about Alice Munro, too, is the extreme mundanity of things. And how even a life reduced to complete mundanity, like capitalism taking over rural Ontario or whatever, has complete sway over aspects of life. Nevertheless, people still have these moments of weird desperation, weird longing, weird true love, or weird, powerful lust, and that was a major inspiration for me, too.”

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How to Dress Well, known by his real name Tom Krell, is an American singer, songwriter, and music producer. He is renowned for his unique musical style and emotive voice, blending elements of pop, electronic, jazz, and classical music. How to Dress Well's music often delves into personal emotions and inner worlds, winning over fans with its depth and sincerity. more

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