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“...it was clear to everyone at the table who had any experience with men and alcohol—especially men who had won international literary prizes—that he was not going to stop talking at any point in the meal.”

Quote by Ben Lerner

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10:04

This book delves into the complexities of time perception and the impact of memory on personal identity, set against the backdrop of a mysterious and enigmatic narrative. more

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Ben Lerner
Ben Lerner

Ben Lerner, born on February 4, 1979, is an American poet known for his unique style and profound reflections on contemporary social issues. more

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