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“The stories we tell ourselves about ourselves are very often not really what happened. And as I started to write stuff down, I started to challenge what I thought I knew about myself, my culture, my family, all of it. It was a huge, destroying process that completely took over my life. I just wasn't here, I mean I was physically present, but I wasn't here, I was back in the 1980s.”

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Damian Barr, born on July 20, 1976, is a British writer, actor, and television personality. His work covers a variety of themes, including history, literature, and contemporary social issues. more

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