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Furiously Happy: A Funny Book About Horrible Things

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Jenny Lawson
Jenny Lawson

Jenny Lawson, born in 1973, is a talented journalist known for her unique sense of humor and insightful observations. Her work spans across various fields, including social, cultural, and personal life. more

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“From early childhood, I started trying on identities for the buzz they gave me, and I held on to the ones that worked— good reader, gifted writer, strong chess player. At some regrettable point, I took on the identity of being super- reliable. It’s not that I “was” those things but that I got high if others saw me that way, and I got hurt if they didn’t. … And it’s surprising to me how people and events can still affect my mood by affirming or challenging my story and the beliefs that make it up. Without ever planning it or consciously choosing it, I tied my happiness to a story of who I am. If someone contradicts my story, I get angry. If someone honors and affirms my story, I respond with the false grace of an addict who just got a fix. I believe that most of our struggles for happiness can be seen inside this frame, which, for this book, I’m going to call the self-image model of happiness. This is the implicit model of most self-improvement literature—you achieve happiness by deciding who you want to be and becoming that.”

“Confianza en el anteojo, nó en el ojo; en la escalera, nunca en el peldaño; en el ala, nó en el ave y en ti sólo, en ti sólo, en ti sólo. Confianza en la maldad, nó en el malvado; en el vaso, mas nunca en el licor; en el cadáver, no en el hombre y en ti sólo, en ti sólo, en ti sólo. Confianza en muchos, pero ya no en uno; en el cauce, jamás en la corriente; en los calzones, no en las piernas y en ti sólo, en ti sólo, en ti sólo. Confianza en la ventana, no en la puerta; en la madre, mas no en los nueve meses; en el destino, no en el dado de oro, y en ti sólo, en ti sólo, en ti sólo.”