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“I think we are well advised to keep on nodding terms with the people we used to be, whether we find them attractive company or not. Otherwise they turn up unannounced and surprise us, come hammering on the mind’s door at 4 a.m. of a bad night and demand to know who deserted them, who betrayed them, who is going to make amends. We forget all too soon the things we thought we could never forget. We forget the loves and the betrayals alike, forget what we whispered and what we screamed, forget who we were. I have already lost touch with a couple of people I used to be…”

Quote by Joan Didion

Work

Slouching towards Bethlehem

This work gathers twenty essays written between 1965 and 1967, capturing the disintegration of traditional American social structures during a period of profound cultural transformation. The title essay, which lends its name to the collection, reports from San Francisco's Haight-Ashbury district at the height of the counterculture movement, documenting the collision between idealism and reality among the young people who had gathered there. Other pieces address topics including John Wayne, Howard Hughes, the wedding industry, and the author's own experiences in New York and California. The collection is recognized for its distinctive prose style—characterized by precise observation, fragmented structure, and unsparing examination of both its subjects and the author's own perspective—and for its early articulation of what would become known as New Journalism, blending reportage with personal reflection and literary technique. more

Author

Joan Didion
Joan Didion

Joan Didion is an American author born on December 5, 1934. Known for her distinctive narrative style and profound insights into modern life, her works have gained recognition for their unique perspective and deep understanding of the complexities of contemporary society. more

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