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“See, at a certain point it becomes cool to be boy crazy. That happens in sixth grade, and it gives you so much social status, particularly in an all-girls school, if you can go up and talk to boys.”

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Rosalind Wiseman
Rosalind Wiseman

Rosalind Wiseman is a renowned educator, born in 1969. She is known for her research and writings on adolescent behavior and school culture. Wiseman's work delves into the dynamics of teen social interactions, bullying, and how to foster a positive learning environment in schools. more

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