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“…my whole life I had been engaging in the hard work of learning to run for myself, not for others. I had been learning how to return to myself, again and again, in a world full of forces that consistently pull us away. I wanted to hold tight to that knowledge; even more strongly, I wanted to pass it on. I stood up from the track and began to run home.”

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Good for a Girl: A Woman Running in a Man's World

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Lauren Fleshman
Lauren Fleshman

Lauren Fleshman, born on September 26, 1981, is an accomplished athlete, fitness coach, and nutrition consultant. She achieved significant success in both track and field and triathlon, and after her retirement, she transitioned to the fitness and nutrition field, becoming a well-known advocate for a healthy lifestyle. more

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