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“Some time ago, my son Emilio was going back to school after vacation. He did not like the idea at all and was filled with anxiety. To him, the approach of school days was like a monster that threatened him and wanted to squash him. What is a parent supposed to do? I tried to lift his spirits, to distract him, convince him it was not as bad as it seemed, but in vain. Then I hit upon the idea of offering him something that is almost taboo in our family: French fries at a fast-food place. Usually anything that is prohibited appeals to Emilio, especially junk food. I thought I had the ace up my sleeve. But no. Emilio's reply ought to be chiseled in stone: "Dad, you don't solve problems with french fries." Touche. You don't pretend problems do not exist, and you can't solve them with ephemeral distractions. You have to face them with open-eyed honesty. Offering French fries to my son in order to console and distract him from his anxiety was by no means a kind act. I was simply choosing the easier option--far too easy. I had found a comfortable way out.”

Quote by Piero Ferrucci

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The Power of Kindness: The Unexpected Benefits of Leading a Compassionate Life

The Power of Kindness examines the profound impact of kindness on personal well-being and social harmony. It draws on research from psychology, neuroscience, and sociology to illustrate how acts of kindness can lead to improved mental health, stronger relationships, and a more compassionate world. more

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Piero Ferrucci
Piero Ferrucci

Piero Ferrucci is a renowned psychotherapist, born on April 23, 1946. His work focuses on helping people improve their mental health and quality of life through psychotherapy. more

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