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“Do y all realize how many ways women are shamed for NOT DYING? We're shamed for getting older. We're shamed for having c-sections. We're shamed for surviving assault. When our mere existence is a defiance to a system that want: our lives missing, we dismantle the patriarchy each time we choose living.”

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Book:THE 2nd LIST OF SHIT THAT MADE ME A FEMINIST
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