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“SM is an art. Doing it well requires more than a bag full of expensive whips and exotic electrical toys, a closet full of fetish clothes, or a basement filled with bondage furniture.”

Quote by Patrick Califia

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Patrick Califia

Patrick Califia, born in 1954, is an American writer known for his works in sex literature and LGBTQ+ rights. His works often focus on marginalized and overlooked groups, delving into themes of sex, power, and identity. more

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