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“That was when I finally got to it. This is just the way it was going to be. I could lose fifty pounds and be beautiful. I could write my Book of Books, and have it an underground success. I could even die and be reborn. But no matter what, I would always be as painfully shy and as bewildered by the social talk that brings people together, as shy and as bewildered as I had been since I was a kid. Without knowing what you say to leave without hurting, I pushed back my chair, stood up awkwardly, and silently wandered away. When I awoke I knew, for the first time again, that nothing ever really changes. The shyness is mine, like it or not. It's the best of me and the worst of me, and only the covering it up, the hiding it, and the running from it is not me. And for better or for worse, all of that that is not me is me, too.”

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Sheldon B. Kopp
Sheldon B. Kopp

Sheldon B. Kopp was an American author recognized for his works in psychology and self-help. Born on March 29, 1929, and passing away on the same day in 1999, Kopp's writing centered on personal growth and self-improvement, providing insights and guidance to readers looking to enhance their lives. more

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