“Be patient with yourself. Don't make the loss harder by thinking you should be a certain way, or have bounced back, etc.” Quote by Meghan O'Rourke
“There are many kinds of loss embedded in a loss - the loss of the person, and the loss of the self you got to be with that person. And the seeming loss of the past, which now feels forever out of reach.” FeelsKindPersonsSelfPastLossForeverSeemingEmbedded Author:Meghan O'Rourke
“If you grow up in a home where actions don't lead to predictable consequences, you don't develop strategies to control your impulses.” IfsHomeActionGrowsGrowing UpConsequenceStrategyImpulsePredictable Author:David Brooks
“For sure, the funeral industry seems intensely cynical to me and I don't think it is HELPING people mourn.” PeopleThinkingHelpingSeemsIndustryFuneralCynicalHelping PeopleMourn Author:Meghan O'Rourke
“Some children lack tools to see their course in the world in far-sighted ways. Just introducing school vouchers won't change that. You have to have nurse-home partnerships, early childhood education, mentoring programs and so on. People learn from people they love.” PeopleWorldWayChildrenHomeSchoolCoursesChildhoodProgramToolsNurseIntroducingPartnershipMentoringEarly ChildhoodEarly Childhood EducationVouchers Author:David Brooks
“I learned I'm not a science writer. I'm not very good at describing how something is happening. I try to describe "So What?"” TryingHappeningsVery GoodDescribing Author:David Brooks
“Funerals cost so much money, and are likely to be an additional source of stress in this recession - it's sad that we don't have a more humane, less commercialized way to approach burial.” WaySourceCostApproachStressFuneralHumaneRecessionsBurial Author:Meghan O'Rourke
“If you know that most processing is below the level of awareness, you learn the value of sleep. You're brain is working on the problem anyway.” IfsKnowsProblemValuesSleepLevelsBrainAwarenessProcessing Author:David Brooks
“I take a benign view of digital connectedness. I notice in most young people's lives, Facebook and such doesn't replace normal dating or hanging out, it just facilitates it.” PeopleYoungViewsNormalDatingDigitalHanging OutFacilitateBenignConnectedness Author:David Brooks
“After all dying is one of the most profound and difficult experiences we have.” DifficultDyingProfoundDifficult Experiences Author:Meghan O'Rourke
“We have an idea - a very modern idea - that dying is undignified. But I think this is because we have the illusion that we can control our bodies and our fates.” ThinkingIdeasBodyFateModernDyingIllusion Author:Meghan O'Rourke