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“Perhaps the old view of 'Me breadwinner, you hausfrau' worked for our grandparents, when people obligingly popped off before boring each other to death, but it won't work any longer because we are living too long and divorce is needed today to do what death acomplished more economically before.”

Quote by Merle Shain

Book:Some Men Are More Perfect Than Others

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Some Men Are More Perfect Than Others

This book delves into the lives of individuals who strive for perfection, examining the consequences of their relentless pursuit of excellence. more

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Merle Shain was a renowned author whose works spanned a variety of fields including history, literature, and philosophy. He lived from 1935 to 1989. more

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Book:Some Men Are More Perfect Than Others

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Source: Some Men Are More Perfect Than Others

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Source: Some Men Are More Perfect Than Others

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