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“You really have to learn what you're good at and what you're not good at, what you can handle and what you can't handle. We have a tendency to forget it.”

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Iyanla Vanzant
Iyanla Vanzant

Iyanla Vanzant is a respected spiritual teacher and author, born on September 13, 1953. She is dedicated to helping individuals achieve spiritual fulfillment and personal growth through her teachings on self-improvement, healing, and transformation. Vanzant's work has been influential in inspiring many to embrace their spirituality and make positive changes in their lives. more

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