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“Consider for a moment what you pay attention to all day long. What seems important to you, what do you take for granted and hardly attend to at all? Write it down. Do not judge your answers. Be honest and simple. As you keep track all week long, you'll be amazed at what claims your attention, what you give your precious life force to.”

Quote by Brenda Shoshanna

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Brenda Shoshanna

Brenda Shoshanna, born on December 7, 1939, is an accomplished author whose works span various literary genres, including novels, poetry, and drama. She is renowned for her profound psychological insights and delicate portrayal of human emotions. more

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