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“I mean what else is there for a woman to do if she doesn't want to go from the parental to the marital home with nothing in between? 'An educated woman,'Millie amended. 'An educated woman,' Ursula agreed.”

Quote by Kate Atkinson

Book:Life After Life
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Life After Life

This book is a philosophical and speculative fiction that delves into the idea of life after death and the cyclical nature of existence. The protagonist, who faces numerous deaths and rebirths, reflects on the human condition and the nature of existence across different eras and circumstances. more

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Kate Atkinson
Kate Atkinson

Kate Atkinson is a celebrated British author, recognized for her crime novels and historical fiction. Born in 1951, she has garnered critical acclaim for her intricate plots and compelling characters. Atkinson's writing frequently delves into themes of morality, identity, and the passage of time. more

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