“I am happy." Too happy, he thinks. That's the problem: All I can think about is what I'll feel when the happiness ends. And the worst part? There's no solution.”
Source: Foreclosure Gothic
“Yes, orgasm can be an incredible feeling that allows you to fully take advantage of your anatomy and surrender to all the joys that can lead up to your climax. But whether you orgasm at all or you have multiple orgasms during sex, it’s just part of the pleasure-filled journey—not the culmination or result.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“Each of our bodies is unique. We may share the same basic make-up as men and women, but we certainly don't feel everything the same. What feels good on your body may not always feel good on someone else's
body and that is absolutely natural.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“Sexual Arousal and Foreplay: If we’re to believe that what we see in movies, our sexual rendezvous would consist of 10 seconds of kissing, 5 seconds of groping, and another 5 seconds closing the deal. A straightforward sex scene doesn’t commonly show the female arousal process, and a lot of the time, this process is key in order to have a really satisfying sexual experience.
Fooling around a lot before part A goes into slot B gets the female body prepped for sex in very important way.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“Lube helps to prevent micro-tears on the delicate skin in and on the genitals, which leave us vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections. Lube also makes the friction between your vagina (or anus) and whatever is being inserted silky and comfortable, as well as aids in smooth and nongrating hand sex.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“Using lube has been known to make penetrative sex last longer, and even a drop in the well of a condom can make wearing one a lot more comfy.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“When it comes to getting down, I look at sex like food, and sensuality is its flavor. Like food, sex can be satiating. It feeds our hunger and nourishes our body—you might even argue we need it to live. But if you think about it, making food delicious to eat and crave-worthy relies on flavor. Flavor is unique to the chef preparing the food and then interpreted by the palate of the taster. A food’s flavor, and thus sensuality, can be simple or it can be sweet or spicy, or it can open up a variety of senses. Everyone is his or her own chef—with diners who crave their dishes.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“Sensuality is all about your own personal path to pleasure, the courage to explore it, and the confidence that comes from understanding that part of you.”
Source: Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower Your Sex Life
“The young women in all the YA books I loved were high-school age. By eighteen, the majority of them had saved the world, not to mention: kissed people, traveled, been in a relationship, had sex. At twenty I felt like a pathetic, unaccomplished, uncultured, virgin grandma. It sounds like a joke now, but at the time, around all these people my age casually discussing all of the above, I felt so small.”
Source: Again, But Better
“Sad sex is when you feel you’re losing all touch with her, and she with you, but this is the way of telling one another that the connection is still there, somehow; that neither of you is giving up on the other, even if part of you fears that you should. Then you discover that insisting on the connection is the same as prolonging the pain.”
Source: The Only Story