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“With men, we blame the victim. We blame men because we have camouflaged men's victimization by teaching men to also be the victimizer. Men's victimizer status camouflages men's victim status.”

Quote by Warren Farrell

Book:The Myth of Male Power: Why Men Are the Disposable Sex

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The Myth of Male Power: Why Men Are the Disposable Sex

This book delves into the complex dynamics of gender roles, challenging traditional notions of male strength and vulnerability. It analyzes the societal expectations placed on men and the consequences of these expectations, providing a critical perspective on the concept of male power. more

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Warren Farrell is an activist, born on June 26, 1943. He is known for his advocacy for gender equality and men's issues. more

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