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The Affect Theory Reader

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Lauren Berlant
Lauren Berlant

Lauren Berlant is a renowned cultural theorist and critic, known for her profound analyses of emotion, gender, and culture. Her research spans across various fields, including film, literature, popular culture, and social theory. more

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