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“The most paradoxical aspect of neurotic shame is that it is the core motivator of the superachieved and the underachieved, the star and the scapegoat, the righteous and the wretched, the powerful and the pathetic.”

Quote by John Bradshaw

Work

Healing the Shame that Binds You

This book explores the nature of shame and its impact on individuals, offering strategies for healing and personal growth. more

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John Bradshaw
John Bradshaw

John Bradshaw was an American educator known for his research on family and interpersonal relationships. His work focused on family systems theory, particularly in the areas of family emotional expression and communication. Bradshaw's contributions have had a profound impact on the fields of personal growth and family therapy. more

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