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“Sexualization is the performance of sexuality, the performance of sexiness. Girls are super good at that now.”

Quote by Peggy Orenstein

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Peggy Orenstein

Peggy Orenstein is an American author known for her insightful exploration of women's growth and gender roles. Her work delves into the multifaceted identities and challenges faced by women in modern society, particularly the experiences of teenage girls and young women. more

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