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“Not to fear a person with power--to profess, instead, one's love--is to deny that that person has power.”

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Book:Narcissism: Denial of the True Self

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Narcissism: Denial of the True Self

This book delves into the psychological aspects of narcissism, examining its causes, manifestations, and consequences. It provides insights into the narcissistic personality disorder and its effects on interpersonal relationships and mental health. more

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Alexander Lowen

Alexander Lowen was a significant figure in the field of 【Identity Positioning】. Born on December 23, 1910, and passing away on October 28, 2008, Lowen made a unique impact through his 【Achievements and Contributions】. His work has had a profound influence on the 【Impact and Evaluation】of his field. more

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