“Everybody is on a lifelong journey toward trying to live more deeply. There is nobody who can say, "Well, I've got that one checked off my to-do list." We have to be honest with ourselves about where we are on this journey and about the difficulty of living in our own identities and integrity.” TryingWellsJourneyHonestIdentityIntegrityDifficultyListsBeing HonestLifelongLong JourneyLifelong Journey Author:Parker J. Palmer
“Technology is incredibly creative and has great potentials; but it is also very seductive in the way it isolates people, in the way it jazzes people up, in the way it makes junkies out of us - junkies who need a constant stimulation, more information, more bells and whistles, more electronic wonders in order not to be bored.” PeopleWayNeedsOrderWonderTechnologyCreativeInformationConstantBoredBellsSeductiveJunkieStimulation Author:Parker J. Palmer
“I am very, very uneasy with churches that have basically said, "Well, since that's what people want and that's what sells, then were going to do our worship services like Hollywood productions. We're going to have a lot of bells and whistles. We're going to have high entertainment value, and it is going to have a lot of gloss and glitter."” PeopleWantWellsSaidValuesChurchWorshipHollywoodSellsProductionsEntertainmentBellsGlitterUneasyGlossWorship Service Author:Parker J. Palmer
“I think the church needs to be much more countercultural than that and invite people into slowing down, into a "Be-still-and-know-that-I-am-God" mindset.” PeopleThinkingKnowsNeedsStillsChurchMindsetInvitesSlow DownSlowing Author:Parker J. Palmer
“There is a tradition that the church represents, without which we wouldn't have the church, that's all about diving deep beneath the surface of the culture and finding those timeless, eternal truths that the whole Christian enterprise is rooted in. And one of those is that you don't come to God at 180 miles an hour.” WholeChristianCultureHoursChurchFindingsEternalTraditionSurfaceMilesEnterpriseRootedTimelessDivingBeneath The SurfaceDiving Deep Author:Parker J. Palmer
“You are much more likely to have a holy experience in a quiet, focused, and communal context than you are when you are being entertained.” HolyQuietFocused Author:Parker J. Palmer
“I understand that there are forms of entertainment that can make people weep or jazz them up so they feel like they have had an experience. But I also know that an hour later that's faded and you are back to the difficult realities of your own life. And we need to help people know how to go beyond those difficulties to a place where God dwells.” PeopleKnowsNeedsFeelsHelpingRealityFormDifficultHoursKnow HowDifficultyJazzEntertainmentFaded Author:Parker J. Palmer
“When you are with young people, it is almost inconceivable that things wouldn't arise that you'd have to respond to, such as someone wrestling on the bus. And how you handle that, how you respond to that, how you deal with that is a lesson to the people you are on the bus with.” PeopleYoungDealsLessonsHandleAriseBusWrestling Author:Parker J. Palmer
“Even though kids may have planned for months for the trip to Disneyland, some may be feeling very homesick, very forlorn, or very marginalized by the group. Your capacity to perceive those kinds of situations and respond to them in a pastoral way is the stuff you are teaching. And even though the kids may appear to be ignoring you, they are very aware of what you are doing and how you are doing it. They are also very aware of what you are missing and not picking up on.” WayKindMayFeelingsKidsStuffSituationGroupsTeachingMissingMonthsCapacityPerceiveDisneylandMarginalizedHomesickForlornIgnoring You Author:Parker J. Palmer
“I like to say that before we can create an external space in which to receive people, we have to create an internal space in which to receive them.” PeopleSpaceInternals Author:Parker J. Palmer