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“The trouble with most problem-solving books for parents is that they start with the idea that the child has a problem. Then they try to tell us how to fix the child, or else, after blaming the parent, they suggest how we can fix ourselves.”

Quote by Polly Berrien Berends

Book:Whole child, whole parent
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Whole child, whole parent

This book explores the interconnectedness of a child's well-being and a parent's role in that process, offering insights and strategies for holistic parenting. more

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Polly Berrien Berends

Polly Berrien Berends is an unknown scholar, born on December 1, 1939. Her life and achievements have not been well documented. more

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