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“You put a certain amount of effort into stitching a jacket or dress and you get the garment you expect. There's no mystery. But you put a thousand times more effort into raising your child and the result is the opposite of what you hope and dream for. This seemed so unfair.”

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Jeffery Deaver
Jeffery Deaver

Jeffery Deaver, born on May 6, 1950, is a renowned crime writer from the United States. His works are known for their intricate plots and profound character development, enjoying great popularity among readers worldwide. more

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