“Adolescents are in just as much trouble in Native America as they are in the white community.” Quote by Robert Bly
“The distance between the adolescent and the true adult is about five thousand miles, but the distance between the adult and the elder is almost as large.” FiveThousandAdultsDistanceMilesEldersThousand Miles Author:Robert Bly
“In the sibling society, both the adult and the elder get lost, and no one knows where they are.” KnowsLostAdultsEldersSibling Author:Robert Bly
“We know that the adult in a certain sense has an attitude toward life exactly opposite to the attitude of commercials. Commercials say, 'Your longing for 3.2 beer is very important. Your longing for skin that doesn't have any wrinkles in it, that's very, very, very important.' The adult says, 'No, I've got wrinkles, so what?'” KnowsImportantCertainAttitudeAdultsSkinsOppositesLongingBeerWrinkles Author:Robert Bly
“I saw Sophia Loren - the Italian woman with those wonderful cheekbones - in a movie the other day. She must have had 24 face-lifts, and she looks like an alien, as if she weren't from this world at all. Her Italian wrinkles would have been a thousand times more beautiful.” IfsWorldLooksHas BeensBeautifulFacesSawsWonderfulThis WorldThousandAliensLiftsItalianWrinklesSophiaCheekbones Author:Robert Bly
“Before I was a parent I was struck by Rilke, who, as you know, didn't go to his daughter's wedding because he was writing a poem that day. That was the ideal for artistic behavior in 1950. That's the way I wanted to live.” KnowsWayWritingWantedParentBehaviorDaughterIdealsArtistic Author:Robert Bly
“I wanted to spend all my time writing poetry. But when I had children I couldn't do that anymore.” WritingChildrenWantedMy TimeWriting Poetry Author:Robert Bly
“Adulthood has something to do with not choosing any of the pure points of view, but living about half of what you really want to live.” WantViewsHalfPurePoint Of ViewAdulthood Author:Robert Bly
“I got about half the time I wanted to write poetry. I got about half the time I needed to be a father. So there is something in adulthood that has to do with accepting the half of things, allowing a renunciation of the other half, accepting half a basket instead of a full basket.” WritingWantedFatherHalfAcceptingNeededAllowingAdulthoodOther HalfBasketsRenunciation Author:Robert Bly