“Those of us whose parenting style can be described as "a series of reflexes, instincts, and minute-by-minute adjustments," as Julie of A Little Pregnant puts it, rather than as a philosophy, are less invested in our own practices. What we do is often less a matter of conviction than one of convenience. What we need to remember is that there is no need to apologize for that, even in the face of the most red-faced outrage.” NeedsLittlesMatterPhilosophyRememberFacesPracticeMinutesStyleRedSeriesInstinctConvictionPregnantApologizingConvenienceAdjustmentOutrageReflexesParenting Styles Author:Ayelet Waldman
“Whatever my intentions, whatever the truth of my claim, I had no business giving a lecture to a total stranger.” GivingClaimsIntentionStrangerLectures Author:Ayelet Waldman
“Why are the architects of the family-values agenda so eager to punish into the next generation? What is being served by seeking, quite literally, a tooth for a tooth?” ValuesNextGenerationsSeekingTeethAgendasArchitectNext GenerationFamily Values Author:Ayelet Waldman
“When I was 15, what I wanted in a boyfriend was just that confidence and swagger. I wanted someone who knew what he was doing, because I was just faking it. What I want for my daughter is the exact opposite.” WantWantedDaughterOppositesMy DaughterSwaggerFaking ItWanted Someone Author:Ayelet Waldman
“I'd written personal essays before, but never on this scale -- never so often and with such, er, honesty. (If by honesty I mean slashing my wrists and hemorrhaging all over the computer screen).” IfsMeanWrittenHonestyComputerScreensScalesEssaysWristsPersonal EssaysComputer Screen Author:Ayelet Waldman
“There is an inverse correlation between the cleanliness of a bathroom and my 3-year-old daughter's need to move her bowels.” NeedsYearsMovingDaughterBathroomCleanlinessCorrelationBowelsInverse Author:Ayelet Waldman
“While the collateral consequences of drugs such as cocaine are indisputably severe, they are not unlike those which flow from the misuse of other, legal, substances.” LawScienceResponsibilityKnowledgeDrugConsequenceFlowToleranceSubstanceSevereCocaineProhibitionMisuseCollateral Author:Byron White
“As an exercise of raw judicial power, the Court perhaps has authority to do what it does today; but, in my view, its judgment is an improvident and extravagant exercise of the power of judicial review that the Constitution extends to this Court.” DoeTodayViewsExerciseAuthorityJudgmentConstitutionCourtReviewsJudicialExtravagantJudicial PowerJudicial Review Author:Byron White
“It is not better that all felony suspects die than that they escape. Where the suspect poses no immediate threat to the officer and no threat to others, the harm resulting from failing to apprehend him does not justify the use of deadly force to do so. It is no doubt unfortunate when a suspect who is in sight escapes, but the fact that the police arrive a little late or are a little slower afoot does not always justify killing the suspect.” LittlesDoeFactsUseDiesForceDoubtFailingLateSightPoliceThreatKillingHarmNo DoubtJustifySuspectsOfficersUnfortunateFelonyDeadly Force Author:Byron White
“The issue presented is whether the Federal Constitution confers a fundamental right upon homosexuals to engage in sodomy, and hence invalidates the laws of the many States that still make such conduct illegal, and have done so for a very long time.... Respondent would have us announce, as the Court of Appeals did, a fundamental right to engage in homosexual sodomy. This we are quite unwilling to do.” LongStillsStatesDoneLawIssuesLong TimeConstitutionFundamentalsCourtAppealsIllegalHomosexualUnwilling Author:Byron White