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“Reflection is nothing more than what it sounds, and pondering one’s own life is about as productive as talking to one’s image in a mirror: both acts are egocentric and neither produces a dialog. People who talk to themselves in public are not self-actualized; they're crazy.”

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Anthony Marais
Anthony Marais

Anthony Marais, born in 1966, is a South African novelist known for his works that often explore themes of race, identity, and power. His writing has gained widespread acclaim both domestically and internationally. more

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