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“Disliking humanity in general, she was one of those excessively tender-hearted people who are greatly moved by the troubles of complete strangers, in which she sometimes imagined herself playing a noble part.”

Quote by Barbara Pym

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Jane and Prudence

Jane and Prudence is a narrative that delves into the intricate dynamics of a friendship between two women, offering a nuanced portrayal of their evolving bond and personal growth amidst the backdrop of everyday life. more

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Barbara Pym
Barbara Pym

Barbara Pym was an English novelist known for her wit, humor, and delicate psychological portraits. Her works often focus on the lives of the middle class and are celebrated for their unique perspective and profound insight into everyday life. more

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