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Abundance

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Sena Jeter Naslund
Sena Jeter Naslund

Sena Jeter Naslund is an American author born on June 28, 1942. Her works are known for their delicate emotional descriptions and rich historical backgrounds, with notable titles including 'The Black Swan' and 'Angel's Shadow'. more

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“There’s all this pressure in our society to be beautiful, to be strong, to be sexy. So we spend our time and money on trying to become these things. We put on the high heels, the suits, the makeup, the mask. Then, we feel more awkward than confident, so we drink away our anxieties. That doesn’t make us look any sexier – it just makes us stop caring about how we look. Everyone is beautiful. Everyone is sexy. Everyone is strong. It’s lunacy. We’re all running around trying to become something that we already are. You know what’s really sexy? A person who’s 100% comfortable with themselves. And you know what’s really funny? It is just as time consuming and difficult to learn to accept yourself as it is to pretend to be someone else. The only difference is – with self acceptance, one day, it’s not hard anymore. One day, you feel like your sexiest, strongest self just rolling out of bed in the morning. You’re either going to spend the little time you have in your life on trying to know yourself or trying to hide yourself. The choice is yours. You can’t do both. And you know what’s really amazing about choosing self-love? You’ll be setting an example for all the people around you and all the kids of the coming generation. You’ll be part of a revolution to take back the precious moments of our lives out of the hands of shame-inducing advertisers and back into the hands and hearts of real people like you, like me, like all of us. I know you’ve dreamt about changing the world. So this is your chance. Learn to love yourself, accept yourself, and unleash your strongest, sexiest self. It’s in there. You just have to believe it.”

“The real heartbreak isn’t loud, it’s quiet. It’s when silence takes over everything. When two people who once talked for hours now don’t even know what to say. No anger, no closure, no fights, just a strange distance that can’t be seen but is deeply felt. You still care, but the words don’t come anymore. You still think of them, but the bond feels lost. That’s the kind of heartbreak that hurts the most when love doesn’t end with a goodbye, it just fades into silence.”