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“If the baron is a masochist himself, then why would he attract another masochist? I suppose he wants someone cute to attract other sadists.”

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Our Young Man

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Edmund White
Edmund White

Edmund White, an American novelist born on January 13, 1940, is known for his delicate prose and profound emotional descriptions. His works cover a wide range of themes, including homosexuality, history, and literature. more

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