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“We can air our grievances in life, or we can try to understand other people's. Anna's a smart person. She does the really hard work with Tully and then he goes off and makes a plan with somebody else. It's a thing men do. Not the end of the world, but you can't expect her to like it.”

Quote by Andrew O'Hagan

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Mayflies

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Andrew O'Hagan
Andrew O'Hagan

Andrew O'Hagan is an accomplished Irish novelist born in 1968. His works are renowned for their profound emotional depth and unique narrative style, exploring themes of personal identity, moral dilemmas, and the essence of human existence in modern society. more

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