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“As long as I can remember, male candy eaters have been ill-used, misunderstood, and denigrated, in films and on television, as weak, self-indulgent, soft, effeminate, undisciplined, and venal. Most of us have been driven underground. We eat our candy alone and on the sly. We never experience the intimacy of sharing candy with others—unless we have chosen our mates wisely.”

Quote by Jeffrey Steingarten

Work

It Must've Been Something I Ate: The Return of the Man Who Ate Everything

This book is a personal narrative by a man who challenges himself to eat an extensive range of foods, from exotic delicacies to common everyday items. The author delves into the science of digestion and the complexities of taste, offering insights into the human body's ability to process and enjoy a diverse diet. more

Author

Jeffrey Steingarten
Jeffrey Steingarten

Jeffrey Steingarten is a renowned food writer, born on May 31, 1942. His work is characterized by its unique perspective and profound insight into the culinary world, having a significant impact on the dissemination of food culture and the development of food writing. more

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