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“Grief makes a tunnel of our lives, and it is all too easy to los sight of the other people in the darkness with us - to wish they weren't there, so their loss would stop rubbing up against ours.”

Quote by Erica Bauermeister

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Erica Bauermeister

Erica Bauermeister is an American author born in 1959. Her works are known for their unique perspective and profound emotional depth, primarily focusing on themes of family, love, and human nature. more

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