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“The child tends to be stripped of all social influences but those of the market place, all sense of place, function and class is weakened, the characteristics of region and clan, neighborhood or kindred are attenuated. The individual is denuded of everything but appetities, desires and tastes, wrenched from any context of human obligation or commitment. It is a process of mutilation; and once this has been achieved, we are offered the consolation of reconstituting the abbreviated humanity out of the things and the goods around us, and the fantasies and vapors which they emit. A culture becomes the main determinant upon morality, beliefs and purposes, usurping more and more territory that formerly belonged to parents, teachers, community, priests and politics alike.”

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Jeremy Seabrook
Jeremy Seabrook

Jeremy Seabrook is a British journalist renowned for his in-depth reporting on Asia, particularly South Asia. His career spans over half a century and covers a range of topics including politics, society, and economics. Seabrook's work often focuses on issues in developing countries, particularly in India and Pakistan. more

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