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“If we are only interested in changing the AS person so that they can better meld themselves into society - a tenuous and nebulous concept to begin with - then perhaps we are misguided. The AS community gives us much cause to celebrate. Never, I think, should we expect or want them to be carbon copies of the most socially adept among us. We should only suggest whatever help they need to insure they have every opportunity of leading productive, rewarding and self-sufficient lives. We would lose too much and they would lose even more, if our goals were anything more, or less.”

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Book:Pretending to be Normal: Living with Asperger's Syndrome (Autism Spectrum Disorder) Expanded Edition
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Pretending to be Normal: Living with Asperger's Syndrome (Autism Spectrum Disorder) Expanded Edition

This expanded edition delves into the author's experiences with Asperger's Syndrome, providing a comprehensive look at the social, emotional, and cognitive aspects of living on the autism spectrum. The book offers a candid perspective on the daily struggles and triumphs of individuals with Asperger's, aiming to educate and empathize with those affected by the condition. more

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Liane Holliday Willey
Liane Holliday Willey

Liane Holliday Willey, born in 1959, is a renowned author in the United States. Her works primarily revolve around autism and its impact on personal lives, gaining widespread recognition for her unique perspective and profound insights. more

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