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“Going on a journey always makes me feel sick and nervous,' he explained rather apologetically, 'and one needs strengthening to face the good-byes.”

Quote by Barbara Pym

Book:Less than angels
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Less than angels

This book delves into the lives of individuals grappling with their inner struggles and the challenges of their society, offering a rich tapestry of human emotions and ethical considerations. more

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Barbara Pym
Barbara Pym

Barbara Pym was an English novelist known for her wit, humor, and delicate psychological portraits. Her works often focus on the lives of the middle class and are celebrated for their unique perspective and profound insight into everyday life. more

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