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“Is the air okay?" I texted. "It hurts a little to breathe," my sister texted back. "But we're okay." Jesus, I thought, is there a better and more succinct definition of grief than It hurts a little to breathe, but we're okay?”

Quote by Sherman Alexie

Book:You Don't Have to Say You Love Me
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You Don't Have to Say You Love Me

This book delves into the complexities of family relationships, focusing on the intricate emotional bonds between parents and children. more

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Sherman Alexie
Sherman Alexie

Sherman Alexie is an American poet, writer, and actor, known for his works that reflect the life of Native Americans. He was born on October 7, 1966, and grew up in the Confederated Tribes of the Umatilla Indian Reservation in Rainier, Washington. more

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