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“She snapped," they said. "Couldn't take it anymore." "Reached her breaking point." We should teach our girls that snapping is okay instead of waiting for someone else to break them.”

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Shout

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Laurie Halse Anderson
Laurie Halse Anderson

Laurie Halse Anderson is an American author known for her young adult literature. Her works often explore the challenges and growth of adolescence, and are highly appreciated by young readers. more

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