“The synchronicity found in nature extends to the rhythm and patterns in our relationships; it explains how random events can come together to achieve harmony, flow, and order. Similarly, social synchronicity plays a large role in the art of constructive communication by helping us understand how social patterns can positively impact our relationships.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“Groundbreaking research at Cal Tech has now revealed that humans not only tend to synchronize their movements, such as clapping in unison or walking at the same pace, but they also synchronize their social interactions as well.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“The gracious timing of social synchronicity helps the sender’s message align and resonate with the receiver’s ability to recognize, receive, comprehend, and appreciate the intended message. When the sender and receiver are “in sync,” the clarity and synergy created are powerful and affirming.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“Being “out of sync” happens all the time . . .
• Have you ever begun a discussion when the timing was not right and your message was subsequently rejected?
• Have you ever said the right thing at the wrong time and ended up looking stupid or inappropriate?
• Or perhaps rather than having a positive or a negative effect, your message fell on deaf ears and had no effect at all?
• Has your poor timing ever resulted in social awkwardness, humiliating rejection, or alienation?
• Has anyone ever attempted a serious discussion with you in the middle of your day when you were overwhelmed by phone calls, emails, and appointments?”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“Such aching mystery hides,
in your stardust-glimmer eyes.”
Source: Taste the Wild Wonder: Poems
“Knowing when to say something is as important as knowing what or what not to say. You may have the perfect message, but it can be negated by imperfect timing.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“Being “out of sync” can be exasperating. Seek to synchronize to increase your chances for success and positive outcomes. Just because your timing is good for you does not mean it is a good time for another person.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“Finding the right time is like discovering a social portal which opens a gate for others to receive your message and "get you." You only get one chance to make a first impression and if the gate begins to close, you may never get another opportunity to walk through it. Watch for the openings and synchronize your movements with your intended recipient.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“All in Good Time. The ancient Buddhist saying shares, “When the student is ready, the master will appear.” When the timing is right, lessons are learned and miracles can happen. However, when the timing is “out of sync,” even the best of intentions can be met with resistance.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact
“Eloquent speakers, communication experts, seasoned actors, and musicians all understand the transforming power of the pause. They know all too well that strategic silence and a well-placed whisper can speak louder than words in delivering a memorable presentation. It captures people's attention . . . creating eager anticipation for your next words.”
Source: The Art of Communication: 8 Ways to Confirm Clarity & Understanding for Positive Impact