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“As a result of "love," man is able to hide his cowardly self-deception behind a smoke screen of sentiment. He is able to make himself believe that his senseless enslavement to woman and her hostages is more than an act of honor, it has a higher purpose. He is entirely happy in his role as a slave and has arrived at the goal he has so long desired. Since woman gains nothing but one advantage after another from the situation as it stands today, things will never change. The system forces her to be corrupt, but no one is going to worry about that. Since one can expect nothing from a woman but love, it will remain the currency for any need she might have. Man, her slave, will continue to use his energies only according to his conditioning and never to his own advantage. He will achieve greater goals, and the more he achieves, the farther women will become alienated from him. The more he tries to ingratiate himself with her, the more demanding she will become; the more he desires her, the less she will find him desirable; the more comforts he provides for her, the more indolent, stupid, and inhuman she will become — and man will grow lonelier as a result.”

Quote by Esther Vilar

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The Manipulated Man

This novel delves into the psychological intricacies of human interaction, focusing on the ways in which individuals can be manipulated and controlled within their personal and professional lives. more

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Esther Vilar
Esther Vilar

Esther Vilar, born on September 16, 1935, is a renowned writer. Her works mainly discuss gender, social structures, and political issues, known for their unique perspective and profound insights. more

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