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“I do not think I was capable of understanding, as I was only six. My mother became distant and shut her feelings as she left me. How could she explain to me—a six-year-old—what was going to happen to me? This was a hopeless situation for both of us. A mother giving up her child to strangers is one of the hardest things to do, and I would soon know what alone meant.”

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Book:They Called Me 33: Reclaiming Ingo-Waabigwan
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Healing The PastIndigenous WisdomResidential Schools
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