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White Tears/Brown Scars: How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color

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“The particular challenge to those of us who work within the feminist antiviolence movement is to confront and dispel the myths we have created about ourselves as women and as feminists. We need to challenge the notion of women’s shared experiences and accept specificities of women’s experiences in relation to the complex matrix of social institutions, not just the patriarchy. We need to challenge the notion that women do not have real power in this society, and address how all of us are capable of using our various powers and privileges lovingly or abusively. We need to acknowledge the limitation of our feminist consciousness and ethics, and pursue structural remedies to hold ourselves accountable to each other as women and as fellow human beings.”

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Book:The Color of Violence: The Incite! Anthology
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“We men benefit, all of us men benefit, from rape culture. We benefit from the pain it causes women because we sprint ahead obliviously; we benefit from the way it knocks them off circuit and opens space for us; we benefit from the way it dehumanizes them so that our own humanity can shine more greatly; and we benefit from the aura of power it gives us as perpetrators or as beneficiaries. And because we benefit, explicitly or implicitly, we are not vociferous enough in our opposition to it.”

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“เมื่อเป็นแม่ ชีวิตผู้หญิงจะถูกสะบั้นจากความสัมพันธ์ส่วนตัวอื่น เธอถูกกันออกห่างจากสังคม และถูกจองจำไว้แค่ในบ้าน เธอได้รับอนุญาตให้ทำกิจกรรมใดๆ เพื่อลูกเท่านั้น ต้องอุทิศเวลา อารมณ์ความรู้สึก พลังงาน และเงินทองเพื่อลูก ต้องสร้างมนุษย์สัมพันธ์ที่มีลูกเป็นสื่อกลาง หากเผยตัวตนด้านอื่นนอกเหนือจากบทบาทแม่เมื่อไหร่ สังคมจะเคลือบแคลงคุณสมบัติการเป็นแม่ของเธอทันที”

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Book:82년생 김지영
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“Men who give up the common goal of all things that exist, thereby cease to exist themselves. Some may perhaps think it strange that we say that wicked men, who form the majority of men, do not exist; but that is how it is. I am not trying to deny the wickedness of the wicked; what I do deny is that their existence is absolute and complete existence. Just as you might call a corpse a dead man, but couldn't simply call it a man, so I would agree that the wicked are wicked, but could not agree that they have unqualified existence.”

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Book:The Consolation of Philosophy
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“Never let anyone touch your private parts, they’d say. But I wasn’t told why I had to protect my private parts, just that it was imperative that I did. Because of this, when I thought of my experience, I didn’t hold my abusers accountable—I held myself to blame. In my mind, they didn’t abuse me. I broke the rules. I was the one who did something wrong.”

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Book:Unbound: My Story of Liberation and the Birth of the Me Too Movement
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