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“I tried to love Dad and not hate him for his fake cheer and the way he gets dressed. I tried to imagine what Mom saw in him back when she was an architect. I tried to put myself in the shoes of someone who finds every little thing he does a total delight. It was sad, though, because the thought of him and all his accessories always made me sick. I wished I'd never made the connection about Dad being a gigantic girl, because once you realize something like that, it's hard to go back.”

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Book:Where'd You Go, Bernadette
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Where'd You Go, Bernadette

In this novel, the protagonist Bernadette, a highly intelligent yet unconventional woman, is the focus of a complex narrative. Her relationship with her daughter, Bee, is central to the story, as Bernadette's disappearance prompts Bee to embark on a journey to understand her mother's past and the reasons behind her actions. The novel is known for its witty prose and unique blend of humor and heartache, offering readers a glimpse into the life of an enigmatic figure and the impact of family dynamics. more

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Maria Semple
Maria Semple

Maria Semple is an American novelist renowned for her satirical and humorous writing style. Born on May 21, 1964, she has made a significant mark in the literary world with her unique voice and wit. Semple's works often delve into contemporary social issues, offering insightful commentary on modern life. more

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