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The First Bad Man

This book follows the story of a woman who grapples with her past and present, navigating the complexities of her relationships and the societal expectations placed upon her. more

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Miranda July
Miranda July

Miranda July, born on February 15, 1974, is an accomplished American film director known for her distinctive narrative style and profound emotional expression. Her work has garnered widespread acclaim from audiences and critics alike. more

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