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“We are at breaking point. We can't breathe for expectation. And when our male counterparts want to help us usually they ask, what they can do? Asking what you can do is the same as creating another job. If I need to explain what to do and how to do it and all the ingredients of doing that thing properly I honestly may as well do it myself. Women feel overlooked, taken for granted, exhausted by where feminism came and then abandoned us.”

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MILF: Motherhood, Identity, Love and F*ckery

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Paloma Faith
Paloma Faith

Paloma Faith is a British singer-songwriter known for her distinctive voice and personalized musical style. Born on July 21, 1981, she has achieved significant success in the music industry since the release of her debut album 'Do You Want the Truth or Something Beautiful?' in 2009. more

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