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“The people I know, they are mostly aiming their crosshairs at stuff like being loved, not being lonely, finding some security, and a bunch of other things that are actually pretty normal and worth pursuing. In fact, I think God put it in our hearts to aim for those things, and it's nice when we actually hit those targets. Sometimes, though, things can go horribly wrong and we end up flat on our backs in a blood-soaked T-shirt. I don't think God is mad at us when that happens. He knew when He made the world that there was going to be some pain and people were going to get hurt--whether they did it to themselves or others did it to them. He knew people were going to manipulate each other and cheat and try to get love and respect in inappropriate ways. Still, it's hard for me to see Him enjoying the pain when we fail. These days, the view of God I hold on to isn't Him being mad because I've missed the mark. It's the one of Him seen through a bloody eye, scooping me into His arms, getting blood all over His shirt, and carrying me away to get healed.”

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Love Does: Discover a Secretly Incredible Life in an Ordinary World

This book explores the transformative power of love and how it can be found and expressed in the most ordinary of circumstances, offering practical advice and inspiring stories. more

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Bob Goff
Bob Goff

Bob Goff is an author known for his inspiring books and speeches that focus on the importance of love, forgiveness, and interpersonal relationships. Although his exact birth and death dates are unknown, his influence is evident in contemporary society. more

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