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“By the time I was five, he yelled at me so much I thought my name was Asshole.”

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Dan Gilroy
Dan Gilroy

Dan Gilroy is an accomplished American screenwriter known for his contributions to the film industry. His works often focus on crime and thriller genres, with films like 'Nightcrawler' and 'Night Moves' receiving widespread acclaim. more

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