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“The truth is despite the hard work and juggling required to keep the different facets of the frantic life afloat, the "superwoman" has one marvelous compensation. Being busy and being seen to be busy lets you off the hook. Buys you a way out of all aspects of your many roles you secretly despise ... like cleaning cupboards ... or entertaining your husband's business friends. When you combine wife, mother, career and all, each role become the perfect excuse for avoiding the worst aspects of the other.”

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Bettina Arndt
Bettina Arndt

Bettina Arndt, born on August 1, 1949, is a German journalist with a career spanning various fields, including political, social, and cultural reporting. more

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