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“Childhood is dark and it's always moaning like a little animal that's locked in a cellar and forgotten. It comes out of your throat like your breath in the cold, and sometimes it's too little, other times too big. It never fits exactly. It's only when it has been cast off that you can look at it calmly and talk about it like an illness you've survived.”

Quote by Tove Ditlevsen

Book:Childhood, Book One of the Copenhagen Trilogy
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Childhood, Book One of the Copenhagen Trilogy

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Tove Ditlevsen
Tove Ditlevsen

Tove Ditlevsen was a Danish poet known for her profound lyrical poetry. Her works often explore themes of loneliness, love, and death, and have been beloved by readers. more

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